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Hints On How To Win a Woman’s Heart

By Yunus S Saliu

If you are among one of those old schools that believe you can only win a woman’s heart when you are fully loaded with some cash, better think twice. Money is not everything when it comes to love but it is part of love’s gateways. Money power, it is true that you can get any type of woman when you are rich but it does not mean that you have won her heart or she has given you her heart whole.

A woman needs a man that will call her beautiful instead of odd and stigmatized names. A woman needs a man that will lie under the stars while she listens to his heartbeat and stay awake to watch him sleeping. This is the same thing, as you, a man, will open your arms waiting or expecting your sweetheart to rush towards and embrace you while you cuddle her. So, if you want to win a woman’s heart you need to be a good observant; meaning you have to observe her to know her likes and dislikes, her happy and sad moments.

If you are sure of truly loving a woman and want her heart, you have to love her for what she is not who is she and what you are when you are with her or away from her as this will give her confidence with full hope and admiration that you are there for her. When a woman is in love she wants a man to do everything to prove his love to her because she will want and wait for a man or guy who will kiss her forehead, show her off to the world when you are in sweats, and hold her hand in front of his friends and say this is my wife or woman. This is because a woman will and can only give her heart to a man who constantly reminds her of how much he cares and how lucky he is to have her.

You need to build excitement between her and you, as that will always make her feel you are absent or far away from her. How do you do this? Okay, start with a nice emotional chat with unexpected hugs and kisses. Try and know more about your wife though a woman is not easy to understand vividly as we sometimes think but gradually. Like mentioned earlier make your wife in need of you every time by always being friendly to her so that she will feel free to talk with you about everything including threshing out. Doing this she will have confidence and becomes your friend and through this, you shall win her heart gradually.

Constant communication does the magic very fast as this allows you to discuss some ideas and emotional words. Always tell your wife I love you and call her pet names not only at bedtime alone. Even when you are dressing for work in the morning let her be part of it. This will always make her want to see you back home early because this will allow her to be free in mind and action and will always undress you with her mind and eyes. And with this, you are penetrating gradually to the innermost part of her heart.

Love is sweet and never hurt. You have to love to be loved because the heart that love is always higher therefore you will have to be patient with your woman. Like they say the patient dog eats the fattest bone; it is not easy but it is part of the foundation of a memorable and everlasting relationship. A man should be patient with his woman and in doing this he will create a special unique impact in her heart.

Once again communication is the backbone of every sweet relationship, as this creates a comfortable environment with open hearts and give a chance to the woman to express her feeling during decision-making.
Men sometimes feel reluctant to say ‘sorry’ which every woman would love to hear from her man. In love there is no room for a bossy, saying sorry to your woman does not mean you are a fool neither does it make her to be Margaret Thatcher in the house. But with love, there is no room for excuses. So, women in general like a man that will not only be a boss but a considerate man. A man should give his woman special attention by treating her with honor, tenderness, and concern to make her feel happy and lucky for having him as a partner.

Respect is reciprocal; men should always use it as bricks in laying a sweet and unbreakable love foundation. There should always be respect in your relationship if truly you want to win your woman’s heart as this will enable you and your woman to secure the key to a truly honest relationship.

I Impregnated My girlfriend In The Absence of My Wife


I am a married man. Initially, my wife was not staying with me because she was going to school. Then I got a girlfriend and unintentionally got her pregnant. She delivered a baby girl. She informed me about this but I was very afraid to break the news to my family since then. I am, however, taking care of the mother, child and still communicate with her regularly but without any intimacy or special attachment and nothing like romantic talk. My wife now stays with me and she is fully aware of this and also accepted the situation. But none of my family members know anything about this for the past two years. What should I do? I am 31.

There is nothing much to do than to tell your parents about it and welcome your daughter home. Already the person you should be afraid of knowing about this is your wife, she knows everything already. So you don’t need to hide it anymore from the family or your parents especially. Don’t you know that your family deserves to know this earlier before anyone else? Because they are the ones to broker peace between you and your matrimonial wife and the mother of your daughter should there be any uprising on this issue? Sincerely, it is not easy to say out but at this stage, it is very easy. Therefore, what you need is courage, since you know that the child is your blood, talk to your wife about your intention to inform your parent. I do not know your plan, your wife, and the mother of your daughter’s minds, but if you know you can keep two wives without problem, rivalry hassle and jealousy seek your first wife’s advice over it. But if you know you can’t keep two wives for now the same thing seeks for her advice on the need of bringing in your child. Whatever your decision let the mother of your daughter know that you love and admires her courage. In addition, your parents cannot deny you from accepting your blood or being ill-fated about your daughter. Good luck!

Why Do Couples Separate?


Why is it that many new couples better still some young lovers nowadays used to separate or even divorce, is this always wrong or right?

Aaah! This a short question but needs a longer answer.
The reason is far off infidelity and money. However, in brief, separation or divorce is caused by problems centered on a lack of understanding (misunderstanding each other), respect, love, communication, friendship, and threshing-out and among other things. So there are different attributes to the above as far as our community or society is concerned finance, adultery, fornication, selfishness, family problem, fighting, social life, carelessness, forgetfulness, jealousy, and childlessness are other causes. Compatibility, habit, and hiding behind family, religion, reliability, friend, and environment/society, all among other things that do cause separation/break-up in dating or marriage. In one of the future editions, this will be explained in detail. However, marriage is like a cage; one sees the birds inside desperate to get in, and those inside desperate to get out. So, couples often split (separate) because of lack of trust, unfaithfulness, uncared and callousness, impatience, and above all dishonesty which can all be conquered if couples and young lovers can understand themselves. To conquer this there is a need for dialogue among partners and as well take time to understand each other, too. To avoid separation, break-up and divorce in any relationship lovers should see themselves as a partner not as a boss and apprentices. The relationship is not about battle but being there for each other at all times. However, it is not wrong to separate or divorce when the relationship is going sour but it is healthier if you can dialogue and find a solution to the problem as this will make you avoid and overcome separation, break-up, and divorce. Good luck!


Yunus S Saliu

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